sarabeth
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Registered: 02-25-2006 Location: in the middle of mississippi
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posted on 02-25-2006 at 18:41 |
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I GOT BOY TROUBLES!
hey if your still on i wanna ask you somethin..... ok here it goes... my boyfriend and i have been goin out for about 2 months. we liie about 45 minutes away from each other and we go to different schools..... how do i no he's not flirting with the other girls class??he says that he's a real ''LADYSMAN''!!!! we talk everyday and i no i'm suppose to trust him and i do,but its just always stuck im head. what advice do yall have for me.... lol oh yea we went to a party and we played spin the bottle,but we played it like truth or dare....of course they dared me and my boyfriend to kiss... i wasn't sure if i wanted to or not and i don't no if he was either but we never did kiss though...we never talked about kissing....should i start kissing him...i kiss him on the cheek and stuff and i try to take things slow... i'm so confused!!!!
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GradBoy
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Posts: 124
Registered: 02-22-2006 Location: Va
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posted on 02-25-2006 at 18:54 |
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Concession gives birth to concession!
You could always tell if you are sure about your boy friend, but now you see, you're not sure about him. Yet, how old is he, probably your age or little older, but then what? I think it's too early for you to have a boy friend at this age, but once you have him, be careful! Refrain from kissing, why? Because, Concession bears (brings) concession! Namely, once you give him this chance, it will not stop there, further you meet further your relationship will go.. now kissing will bring sex tomorrow, that's for sure!
So, Sara, you don't want to make any mistake right?! Be cool, don't let him HAVE you at this age.. furthermore, boys until 23-25, they are very unstable!!! They don't know what they want.. they are not indipendent either.. to go step forward for marriage.
I hope this was helpful,
if not I can give my email for further advice/talks.
Take care,
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GradBoy
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Registered: 02-22-2006 Location: Va
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posted on 02-25-2006 at 19:13 |
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what's more
Boy at that age are also very curious, they wonder and want to try sex. It not that they are truly in love.. but just fantasy and puberty; they hear all around, they watch from movies.. and of course want to try. Now, by having sex they don't really lose as much as girls do!! Girls are very emotional and it's not hard for boys to convince them.. then what? It become boring with same girl, maybe they see more beautiful girl than you.. and you hear "goodbye" from him.. you follow the argument right?
So, Sara, please be very careful. Don't listen what others say, don't stay with him in a closed environment; if you go out, visit the crowded places.. Another very importan thing you should do, go and introduce your boyfriend to your family, and go ask that he introduces you to his family.. That's very important if you think a bit.
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22yearguyvirgin
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Registered: 01-18-2006 Location:
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posted on 02-25-2006 at 20:13 |
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Gradboy please don't make such broad assumptions. I'm only 22 but have been for the most part the same since I was 15. I decided to remain celibate at a very young age. I remember telling my mother about my decision when I was about 8-9 but I don't remember when I made it. I will admit that most boys do take a while to mature but thats not the case for every one. My father is over 50 and is still not very mature.
To sarabeth if youre still around. Be careful sometimes those gut feeling are there to protect you. If you feel he may be going behind you're back be very careful around him until you know for sure.
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GradBoy
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Registered: 02-22-2006 Location: Va
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posted on 02-25-2006 at 21:03 |
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shocked
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Be careful sometimes those gut feeling are there to protect you. If you feel he may be going behind you're back be very careful around him until you know for sure.
was this referring to me? 
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22yearguyvirgin
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posted on 02-25-2006 at 21:06 |
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no
I was talking about her boyfriend being a "ladysman"
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GradBoy
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Posts: 124
Registered: 02-22-2006 Location: Va
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posted on 02-25-2006 at 21:34 |
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well
Well thank you.. you made me feel better
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The_Scribe
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Registered: 02-16-2006 Location:
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posted on 03-05-2006 at 19:29 |
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"how do i no he's not flirting with the other girls class??he says that he's a real ''LADYSMAN''!!!! we talk everyday and i no i'm suppose to trust him"
You shouldn't trust him.
As he said he's a "ladies man." 
He's just looking to see how far he can go wit you then dump you, seriously I've seen and heard this too many times.
He's a wolf in sheep's clothing. I'd watch him if I were you.
Then again I'd dump him. 
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sweettart
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Registered: 07-01-2005 Location: California
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posted on 03-15-2006 at 22:43 |
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men
Some men just love to be ladies men.I'm having a hard time taming men in their 30's
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